Confession Session

[Riddler]

If that is the case, accept that fact, get depressed and stew on it for a week or two, listen to some blues, and then move on. If it helps, just block yourself from talking to her for a few days. Don't tell her you're doing it, just stop being addicted for a bit. It takes a while and its gradual, but it DOES pass as long as you actually accept it.

It is entirely possible to love a girl, have her tell you she doesn't feel the same, and then just be friends. You can still love her without it being romantic. Just promote her to "your favorite cousin" or "the sister I never had" inside your head. Hard as it is to believe, the feeling DOES fade eventually, as long as you accept it and don't keep saying "what if."

Thats probably the most reasonable way to deal with this, you`re right. I just have to try to keep my emotions in line. I mean, it already felt very liberating to talk about this with someone, so thanks.

Though I still say it's suspicious that she was asking if you felt more. That might have just been her way of not risking anything.

To clear this up, as I mentioned, there was that time I got incredibly depressed (not to say way emo) and that was the same time she had that whole trouble with her boyfriend and she naturally (and rightly) suspected that it had something to with her.

[RobbyBevard]

If she's point blank and clearly told you no, then that is what it is. Brood on it for a while, then get past it.

[GypsyCarts]

Pretty much what Robby said, no sense in sitting around with it if it's not going to happen, pumpkin.

[DarthAsthma]

My two cents, keeping things bottled up rots your heart away. Getting rejected may break it. But if you'd ask me a broken heart beats a rotten heart any day.
I also made the experience that any kind of feelings one might have do naturally pass away after a rejection, although that might be just me.

[cooldud]

Been in that situation. Put it on the line and confessed. Heart got curbstomped. Took me nigh 4 years and a change of country to completely(?) heal.
Just saying. Maybe a rotten heart is not that bad.

[Noqanky]

Been in that situation. Put it on the line and confessed. Heart got curbstomped. Took me nigh 4 years and a change of country to completely(?) heal.
Just saying. Maybe a rotten heart is not that bad.

I've had that.

But I've also had the horrible regret of never confessing or sharing feelings and having to deal with those emotions for the rest of my life, the "what-if". So both scenarios can suck, but frankly I believe that it's better to live without regrets and if suffering happens then just living it and growing from it.

Granted, I agree with Robby in that if she said she wasn't interested then there's no point and it just needs to be dropped.

[Asakka]

I saw some pictures on my dad's computer f*cking my mom. I know that they've done it at least twice(I have a brother) but after seeing them on pictures I just can't look at my parents the same way....

[kagexp]

^ Reminds me of something...

Spoiler:

I was around 12 and at my dad's going to save some pictures on his computer, and when the save-box popped out I saw a nice collection of Thai ladyboy pornography. It somewhat supported my theory about my dad being a closet-homosexual at that time. Then he got a girlfriend and thin walls is all I can say. But hey, I got a lovely little sister out of it, and time on the internet have taught me that one isn't what one have on their computer so I'm not drawing conclusions out of it or whatever! :)

But one thing is hearing some muffled sounds another a real picture... (It kinda reminds me of watching old Dexter's lab episodes... Uih)

Don't worry! It's natural! I would say more but I think this is one of those cases where it will do more harm than good.
You will deal with it eventually! Everyone has to. :D Think of it as an advantage to look more mature when someone ells goes through it. Hang in there!

[RobbyBevard]

Everyone knows that their parents never have sex. Ever. Not even to have you.

Anything else is a mass conspiracy.

[Don Quichotte De Flamingo]

I would even say that my parents have no sexual organs :)

[kagexp]

Well then, just how is babby formed?! Go on, storkians. :-) Unleash your creativity of lies and non beliefs.

You are not helping at all. :-)

[RPGJay]

[Nolus]

I have been a voyeur so I am going to let you voyeur back at me.
As I reached the age of 20, I decided to make a crucial turn. The last 3 years were the stormiest years of my (short) life. 3 years since I decided to become a comic artist. 3 years since I joined this forum. Funny. I was so passionate and determined, and never thought that I would give it up. But I am not going to walk that path anymore. 3 years full of misery and conflict with occasional flashes of joy. I have been deceiving myself. Whatever I have been doing, I did with superficial seriousness.

But I don't regret it one bit. They have given me precious perspectives. Insights that I would have never known from a Buddhist perspective. They drove me back to poetry. I have never loved studying and learning and knowing and truth as much as I do now, like a drowned man thirsting for air. I have never taken my life as deeply serious as I do now.

Even though I wasn't always honest about it, I have always considered myself a genius. And in the next 10 year I am going to make myself the guy with largest ego on Earth. And also the greatest genius on Earth. Then I will do the hardest thing on Earth that is to lose the largest ego. To know truth and make it known to others. Then spend the rest of my life working for positive social change, advocating empathy and unity.

I am going to change the world. I am going to change the way people look at the world. And I am going to first be the change I want to see in the world. Or die trying.

Deep inside, I've always felt that you're a kind of person who will change the world, and thus, become immortal. Even if we're far away and don't know each other in person, I believe that you will succeed. It's not my mind that tells me this, it's my heart.

Sea, whatever you do, do it as you feel! You're born to it!

[GypsyCarts]

Spoiler:

I have been a voyeur so I am going to let you voyeur back at me.
As I reached the age of 20, I decided to make a crucial turn. The last 3 years were the stormiest years of my (short) life. 3 years since I decided to become a comic artist. 3 years since I joined this forum. Funny. I was so passionate and determined, and never thought that I would give it up. But I am not going to walk that path anymore. 3 years full of misery and conflict with occasional flashes of joy. I have been deceiving myself. Whatever I have been doing, I did with superficial seriousness.

But I don't regret it one bit. They have given me precious perspectives. Insights that I would have never known from a Buddhist perspective. They drove me back to poetry. I have never loved studying and learning and knowing and truth as much as I do now, like a drowned man thirsting for air. I have never taken my life as deeply serious as I do now.

Even though I wasn't always honest about it, I have always considered myself a genius. And in the next 10 year I am going to make myself the guy with largest ego on Earth. And also the greatest genius on Earth. Then I will do the hardest thing on Earth that is to lose the largest ego. To know truth and make it known to others. Then spend the rest of my life working for positive social change, advocating empathy and unity.

I am going to change the world. I am going to change the way people look at the world. And I am going to first be the change I want to see in the world. Or die trying.

So...is this a joke or like a delusion?

[Bobjr]

Wait, this isn't a joke from sea?

[The Beast]

I don't care and I don't think anyone else really does either

[Schwerer Gustav]

I am going to change the world. I am going to change the way people look at the world. And I am going to first be the change I want to see in the world. Or die trying.

[Romani94]

I'm so not looking forward to school this year. Makes me nervous just thinking about it.

Spoiler:

Some of my friends from last year quit school and gotten jobs (wish I was them) and so I have to find new groups of friends and I'm not popular to begin with. I had a fight with my closest friend on facebook because he ditched me last year for another group of friends cuz he has a crush on some girl in that group. He apologised and told me that I could hang out out with their group. But the problem is...some of the people over there don't like me and might reject me JUST because I am an immigrant, what is the DEAL with them, the fact that I also have aspergers doesn't help either. This is a CATHOLIC school, I thought they're suppose to accept everyone. I wish I was in a public school instead. Infact, I wish I never left Brasil, but I had no choice. The teacher's don't help either, I usually take the punishment, I wish I could punch some of them in the face.

[Tsukishima]

So...is this a joke or like a delusion?

He goes into more detail in his last posts, apparently, he wants to join the Communist Party and then... But It sounds really dangerous, even if he's not joking right now, I don't know if he really has the balls to do such a thing.

[Hiroy]

I don't care and I don't think anyone else really does either

I'm with anyone else.
Those guys are rad.